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本课程《获得自律、意志力、自我控制和韧性》旨在帮助学员克服并扭转破坏和损害一生努力的强迫性行为,通过增强自律和意志力来实现。课程将帮助您提高对日常小挫折的韧性,并获得终生受用的心理素质。 历史上伟大的思想家,包括罗马皇帝、古希腊哲学家、军事战略家以及现代科学家,都曾探讨过如何通过提升自律和意志力来改善个人及他人生活。本课程将历史上这些智慧精华提炼总结,省去您阅读成千上百页的参阅文献。 课程核心方法之一是运用**正念(Mindfulness)**。通过正念,学员能够更清楚地认识到自己当下正在做什么,从而做出更好的即时决策,避免陷入强迫性行为。正念让您有机会在行动前停顿片刻,重新思考决策,权衡其对整体努力是助益还是损害。通过想象可能出现的两种结果,正念常能赋予您所需的意志力和自律,做出正确的选择。 课程强调**避免短期强迫性决策**。这些决策,无论是食物选择、运动习惯、商业决策,还是应对愤怒情绪或潜在危险情况的方式,都可能对您的长期目标造成极大损害。 **管理压力**是获得更强意志力和自律的关键。短期压力可以提供能量和专注,帮助我们应对挑战。然而,当压力过载时,我们容易采取不加思索的应对机制,这些行为往往是负面的。在这种状态下,正念的实践也会变得困难,因为思绪被过载感所占据。 通过**时间管理和任务精简**,可以有效降低即时压力,减少被压垮的感觉,从而更容易保持自律,并立即增强意志力。 课程区分了**意志力和自律**。意志力是在当下强迫自己做某事的过程,而自律则包括从心态、规划到执行的整体处理能力。为了取得最大成功,需要结合运用意志力和自律。当纯粹依靠意志力难以达成目标时,学员可以运用各种策略,通过更聪明、更具洞察力的方式来达成自律,实现“巧干而非苦干”。 课程还强调**避免在疲惫时做决定**。疲惫时做出决策,就像压力过载时一样,会极大地削弱清晰思考的能力,也难以找到执行自律的意志力。疲惫时,休息往往比强迫自己继续工作更明智,因为疲劳状态下的工作会产生递减的效益。 此外,课程会探讨著名的**“棉花糖测试”(Marshmallow Test)**,该测试通过考察儿童的自律和意志力,已被证明是预测未来学业和生活成功的有力指标。 投资您的未来,立即报名本课程!
Conquer and reverse compulsive behaviors that damage and undermine all your life's hard work by gaining more discipline and willpower. Become more resilient to small daily failures, and gain mental fortitude that will make you stronger for the rest of your life.SELF DISCIPLINE IS A TOPIC EXAMINED BY THE GREATEST THINKERS IN HISTORYGreat emperors of Rome, philosophers of ancient Greece, great military thinkers, and modern scientists have all wrestled with the question of how we can all improve our lives and the lives of people around us by becoming more disciplined and gaining more willpower.Over many centuries, they have collectively come up with a number of ideas which I boil down for you in this course, so you don't have to read thousands of pages of textbooks.USE MINDFULNESS TO GAIN WILLPOWER AND SELF DISCIPLINEWhen you are more mindful about what you are currently doing, you will make better moment-to-moment decisions, and not give into compulsive behaviors. You can always takes few extra moments and rethink the decision you are about to act on, and reconsider whether your behaviors will aid or damage your overall effort.The act of being mindful and imagining two possible outcomes is often enough to gain the willpower and self discipline you need to do the right thing.DON'T LET SHORT-TERM, COMPULSIVE DECISIONS DERAIL YOUR EFFORTSCompulsive behaviors and rash decisions tend to be quite damaging. They can range from food choices to exercise choices to business decisions to even choices of whether to get angry or not, and how to best handle potentially threatening situations. MANAGE STRESS IN ORDER TO GAIN MORE WILLPOWER AND DISCIPLINEShort-term stress isn't considered bad. It can even be helpful to give us energy and focus to take on immediate challenges. But when stress reaches the point of overwhelm, we tend to fall into coping mechanisms that tend to be undesired behaviors that we aren't as mindful about. In fact, mindfulness itself becomes harder to do because our minds are so consumed with that feeling of overwhelm.TIME MANAGEMENT AND TASK ELIMINATION TO DECREASE OVERWHELMWhen we decrease the intensity of our immediate stressors, they aren't as likely to cause the feeling of being overwhelmed, and that can make it easier to be more mindful about our discipline, and immediately give us more willpower.BALANCE WHEN TO USE WILLPOWER AND SELF DISCIPLINEDon't confuse discipline with willpower. Willpower is the process of forcing yourself to do something in the moment. Self discipline refers to your overall handling of a situation from your mindset to your planning to your execution of certain tasks.For greatest success, combine when you use willpower and when you use self discipline. Sometimes forcing yourself is possible, but often it's not. When forcing yourself to do something out of sheer will isn't possible, you'll be able to employ many tactics to work smarter and not work harder by being intelligent and sophisticated about your self discipline.DON'T MAKE DECISIONS WHEN TIREDThe problem with making decisions when tired is similar to the problem of making decisions while feeling overwhelmed. It's just harder to think everything through. It's also harder to find the willpower for self discipline when tired. If you are tired, it's often smarter to just rest instead of forcing yourself to do some next task because you will gain diminishing returns if you are working while being tired.THE MARSHMELLOW TEST FOR DISCIPLINE AND WILLPOWERWe'll also discuss the famous Marshmellow test, which tests the discipline and willpower in children. The Marshmellow test has been a strong predictor of later-life and school success. Invest in your future! Enroll today!